Lubricant Guide: Types, Uses and Compatibility

If you're not sure which to choose, go for a water-based lubricant: it works with all toys and with latex condoms. Silicone lubricant lasts longer but shouldn't be used with silicone toys, and oil-based lubricant damages latex. In a study of 2,453 women published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine (Herbenick et al., 2011), sessions with water-based or silicone lubricant were rated as more pleasurable and satisfying, both solo and during vaginal sex; this is an association and doesn't prove the lubricant is the cause. Learn about the different types, when to use each one and which lubricants are compatible with your toys.

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Types of Lubricant

Water-Based

MOST VERSATILE

Compatible with all toys and condoms. Easy to clean, doesn't stain. May need reapplying.

Silicone-safe Latex-safe Easy to clean

Silicone-Based

LONGEST-LASTING

Ultra long-lasting, doesn't dry out. Ideal for anal sex and use in water. NOT compatible with silicone toys.

Long-lasting Ideal for water NOT for silicone

Oil-Based

MASSAGE

Very moisturising and long-lasting. NOT compatible with latex condoms (it damages them).

Moisturising NOT with latex Hard to clean

Hybrids (Water + Silicone)

They combine water with some silicone: they're easier to clean than pure silicone lubricants and last longer than water-based ones. As they contain silicone, they aren't safe with silicone toys unless the manufacturer confirms it; with glass, steel or ABS there's no problem. Check the label to see if they can be used with condoms.

Balanced Good staying power

Compatibility Chart

Lubricant Silicone toys Latex condom In water Anal
Water-Based ✓ ✓ ○ ✓
Silicone-Based ✗ ✓ ✓ ✓
Oil-Based ○ ✗ ✓ ○

✓ Compatible | ✗ Not compatible | ○ Works but not ideal

From our orders: people who buy an anal toy add lubricant 26.2% of the time, about 2.3 times more often than with a vibrator (11.3%). Even so, almost three in four orders with an anal toy don't include any. See all purchase data ›

When Should You Use Lubricant?

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Anal sex
Always. The anus doesn't produce natural lubrication. Use thicker lubricants. With a condom, use water-based or silicone, never oil-based; with silicone toys, water-based is best.
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With toys
It makes insertion easier and improves sensation, even with natural lubrication.
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Vaginal dryness
It can be caused by the menopause, some medicines or treatments, or stress. It's common and nothing to be ashamed of. If it happens often or it hurts, it's worth talking to a healthcare professional.
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Long sessions
Natural lubrication can decrease. Lubricant keeps things comfortable.

Lubricants at Loviux

For sensitive skin, choose a fragrance-free, flavour-free formula and avoid glycerine if you tend to get irritated. If you're trying for a pregnancy, many lubricants can reduce sperm motility in laboratory tests: use one labelled as fertility-friendly.

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→ Water-based or silicone lubricant: which to choose (2026)

To see what studies have looked into on this topic, read: What the science says about vaginal lubricants ›

Written with Lova, the Loviux AI · reviewed by the Loviux team