Erotic Cosmetics
Erotic cosmetics are what you put on the skin for play: massage oils and candles, edible or warming oils, stimulating gels, delay products and pheromones. Oils are for massage, not for lubricating: if you use a latex condom, keep them away from it.
How to choose
- For a massage: a massage oil or candle, whose wax melts into a warm oil. If there is going to be oral sex, choose an edible one.
- To feel more: stimulating gels, with a warming or cooling effect, go on in a small amount on the clitoris or the penis.
- To last longer: delay products numb the skin of the penis slightly. Apply them a few minutes beforehand and wipe off any excess so it does not reach your partner.
- If it is your first time: put a little on your forearm and wait a while to see whether it irritates you.
Frequently asked questions
Can a massage oil be used as a lubricant?
It is not recommended: inside the body it can irritate and it weakens latex condoms. For penetration, use a water-based or silicone lubricant.
What is the difference between an edible oil and a massage oil?
An edible oil is made so you can kiss and lick the skin where it has been applied; an ordinary massage oil is not meant to be eaten. Both are for use on the skin.
How do you use a massage candle?
Light it for a few minutes until a little liquid wax forms, blow it out and pour it into your hand or onto the skin from a low height. Test the temperature on your wrist first.
Do pheromones work?
There is little scientific evidence of an effect in people. Treat them as a fragrance for the moment, not as something that will change how your partner reacts.
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