How to Use Sex Toys
Learn the best techniques and tips for enjoying your intimate toys safely and pleasurably, both solo and with a partner.
Preparation
1.
Clean your toy
Always before and after each use.
Always before and after each use.
2.
Charge the battery
If rechargeable, make sure it's fully charged.
If rechargeable, make sure it's fully charged.
3.
Set the mood
Privacy, comfort, pleasant temperature. Take your time.
Privacy, comfort, pleasant temperature. Take your time.
4.
Use lubricant
It always enhances the experience. For silicone toys, use water-based lubricant.
It always enhances the experience. For silicone toys, use water-based lubricant.
Using Vibrators
External stimulation
- • Start with the lowest intensity
- • Explore different areas: clitoris, labia, perineum
- • Try circular movements, gentle pressure, different angles
- • Gradually increase intensity based on your response
Internal stimulation
- • Use plenty of lubricant
- • Insert slowly, listening to your body
- • Experiment with different depths and angles
- • For the G-spot: look for the textured area on the front wall
Anal Toys
⚠️ Golden rules for anal play
1
Always with a flared base
The rectum has no natural stopping point. No base = risk of it getting lost.
The rectum has no natural stopping point. No base = risk of it getting lost.
2
Lots of lubricant
The anal area doesn't self-lubricate. Reapply as needed.
The anal area doesn't self-lubricate. Reapply as needed.
3
Go slowly
Relax, breathe, let your body adapt gradually.
Relax, breathe, let your body adapt gradually.
4
Listen to your body
If there's pain, stop. Mild discomfort is normal; pain is not.
If there's pain, stop. Mild discomfort is normal; pain is not.
With a Partner
- • Communicate: Talk beforehand about what you want to try and set boundaries.
- • Explore together: Use the toy on each other, take turns, discover together.
- • No pressure: If something doesn't work, that's okay. The fun is in experimenting.
- • Continuous feedback: Ask "Do you like it like this?" and adjust accordingly.