Dildos
What is a dildo?
A dildo is a sex toy designed for vaginal or anal penetration, without vibration. Unlike vibrators, dildos offer a more natural and controlled experience. According to LELO data (2022), 47% of women own at least one dildo, making it the second most popular intimate toy after vibrators.
Types of dildos: complete guide
Dildos come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and materials:
- Realistic dildos: Replicate the shape and texture of a real penis, with defined veins and glans.
- Glass dildos: Elegant, hygienic, and perfect for temperature play (cold/heat).
- Silicone dildos: Flexible, soft, and body-safe. The most recommended.
- Double dildos: Designed for simultaneous penetration or couple use.
- Suction cup dildos: Attach to smooth surfaces for hands-free use.
- Harness-compatible dildos: Compatible with harnesses for role play and pegging.
- G-spot dildos: With specific curvature to stimulate the G-spot.
Safe materials for dildos
Material safety is crucial when choosing a dildo. Certified body-safe materials include:
- Medical-grade silicone: Non-porous, hypoallergenic, easy to clean. The gold standard.
- Borosilicate glass: Durable, hygienic, allows temperature play.
- Stainless steel: Satisfying weight, very hygienic, lifetime durability.
- ABS plastic: Hard non-porous plastic, affordable and safe.
Avoid porous materials like TPE, PVC, or rubber, which can harbor bacteria even after cleaning.
How to choose the right size
The ideal size depends on your experience and preferences:
- Beginners: Start with 12-14 cm (5-5.5 inches) length and 2.5-3 cm (1-1.2 inches) diameter.
- Intermediate level: 15-18 cm (6-7 inches) length and 3-4 cm (1.2-1.5 inches) diameter.
- Experienced: 18+ cm (7+ inches) and larger diameters as preferred.
Remember: you can always increase size gradually, but starting too large can be uncomfortable.
Frequently asked questions about dildos
What is the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?
The main difference is that dildos have no motor or vibration. They provide stimulation through manual penetration, while vibrators add vibration to the stimulus. Many people prefer dildos for the more natural sensation and total control over rhythm.
Are dildos only for women?
No. Dildos can be enjoyed by people of any gender. Men use them for prostate stimulation (with a wide base for safety), and couples of all types incorporate them into their intimate play.
What lubricant should I use with my dildo?
It depends on the material: with silicone dildos use water-based lubricant; with glass or steel you can use any type. Never use silicone lubricant with silicone toys, as it can damage the material.
How do I clean my dildo properly?
Wash with warm water and mild soap before and after each use. Silicone, glass, and steel dildos can be boiled for 3-5 minutes for complete disinfection. Dry them completely before storing.
Can I use a dildo for anal sex?
Only if it has a wide or flared base. The golden rule: no base, no anal safety. Dildos without a base can get lost in the rectum, requiring medical attention. For anal use, always choose products specifically designed with a safety base.