Handcuffs
Handcuffs and restraints are the classic accessory for safely and enjoyably introducing power play into your relationship. From metal handcuffs with a key to beginner-friendly velvet restraints, there are over 500 options here. The key is to choose the right material for your level of experience: fabric to start, leather to progress.
Handcuffs and Restraints: Types, Materials, and Safety
Handcuffs and cuffs are the best-selling BDSM accessory and the most common entry point into power play. Over 570 models ranging from plush handcuffs (decorative, open instantly) to genuine leather restraints with locks and complete bondage systems with spreader bars.
Types of Handcuffs by Experience Level
Beginner: Velcro or fabric handcuffs with a safety closure. They open by pulling. No risk. Starting from $5. Intermediate: Metal handcuffs with keys, leather handcuffs with buckles, padded cuffs for wrists and ankles. $10-$30. Advanced: Complete restraint systems (wrists + ankles + spreader bar), bondage rope (shibari ropes), suspension handcuffs with reinforced padding. $30-$100+.
The materials: fabric/velcro (comfortable, safe, opens without a key), metal (classic, firm, requires a key), leather (aesthetic, adjustable, the intermediate option), silicone (hypoallergenic, easy to clean), rope (shibari, requires knowledge of knots).
Frequently Asked Questions about Handcuffs and Restraints
Are sexual handcuffs safe?
Yes, with precautions: always keep the key within reach (or choose handcuffs with a safety mechanism), do not tighten excessively (a finger should fit between the cuff and the skin), and agree on a safety signal before starting. If using restraints on wrists, keep safety scissors nearby in case you need to cut quickly.
What handcuffs should I buy for the first time?
Fabric handcuffs with velcro or silicone with clip closures. They open by pulling or pressing, no key needed. They are comfortable, leave no marks, and eliminate the anxiety of "what if I can't open them?". Price: $5-$15.
Can I use real police handcuffs?
We do not recommend it. Police handcuffs are designed to restrain, not to play — they lack padding, can cause wrist injuries, and if you lose the key, you need a locksmith. Erotic handcuffs are specifically designed to be safe during sexual play.